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NBA Youngboy just had his 7th child at the age of 21. Ladies, how many kids are too many for you to date a man?

Today’s topic comes from a female listener, Derrick, I would like your opinion? One of the assistant soccer coaches has been working out with any of the girls that wanted to train during the off season. My daughter had a few college scouts look at her last season so she is taking advantage of this, along with a few of her friends. This has been offered to all the girls on the team. Most of the time it is just the two or three of the girls. Sometimes only my daughter is there.... They had been working out outside but since its cold they started using a public gym. I’ve been quiet about the situation, since it started. Her dad has known this guy for a while and has had no problems with it. The assistant coach is kinda of young, married and has two small children. Currently he is living in our area while his wife and children live a few hours away due to her job. My daughter came home the other night and told us that coach patted her on the butt at the end of a drill and she didn’t like it. She is 16 and very attractive. I told her she couldn’t go work out yesterday. She was a little upset but she will get over it. I feel like I don't want her around him from this point on. She wants to go back and tell him that he crossed a line and she and her friend are just going to work out on their own. Her daddy is thinking he should go with her today. What are you're thoughts? Are we blowing this out of proportion? See more

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Today’s topic comes from a male listener, Why do women get offended when men or even woman get in their inbox about sex, when they have semi nude or nude pics all over social media?

Today's topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) Jennifer Lopez (J-Lo) sed that "men under 33 are useless" #facts not just because she sed it but because when u think about it med don't mature or acquire anything until 33-35. As a woman who just turned 30 in December, I totally agree with her statement and just want to know if you agree and why men under 33 are useless?

It was ladies’ night for the first Verzuz battle of 2021.

Cardi B had a sexy mission fail.

Ticketmaster’s Plan To Check Covid-19 Status For Concerts Revealed https://trib.al/K77ZSQE

Today’s topic, A Pro-Trump mob has stormed the capital in Washington DC. Do you feel threatened and what do you think is about to happen? Full coverage right now on KMOX

Today’s topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) So my 26 year old live-in boyfriend on 16 months had his best friend from high school come back home to St. Louis from LA last weekend and insisted that they both sleep in our bed. We all had plans to go to dinner but due to Covid we just ordered in. He said I had to sleep in the guest room so they could use the bedroom. He wasn’t chill about it either, his exact words were if we don’t get to catch up I will be pissed at... you. I asked what was so important and he said they used to sleepover each other’s houses and stay up and talk and they need to catch up for old times. My friends think it’s weird that he would want to sleep with his guy friend over me, and so do I. I don’t want to make a big deal out of it because he already thinks I’m dramatic, but I’m kinda hurt. I need a guy’s opinion on this Is this normal? I don’t think he’s gay or nothing like that but should I be concerned? See more

Jay-Z Fan Bypassed Airport Security To Hop On A Flight To See Him, Arrested https://trib.al/Oa3elKn

JUST IN: The 2021 GRAMMY Awards have been postponed.

COVID-19 Test Being Sent To NC Colleges And Universities https://trib.al/Jwh6O1Z

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Today's topic comes from a male listener, Women want us to take out the garbage but don't want to do our laundry and then don't want us to do their laundry. Ask the women why they don't want men to do their laundry. Are they hiding something?

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Today’s topic comes from a female listener, (rewind) Ladies, when you find out your man is cheating, why do you have beef with the other women?

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Today’s topic comes from a female listener, (rewind) I’m 41 years old and have grown a liking to a guy that is an exotic dancer....I think he’s being sincere with me when he talks to me but it’s hard to tell if its game because his job at night is to make women feel good. I have never been to one of his shows even though he has invited me. I don’t know how that would make me feel. Should I even bother starting a relationship with someone who has chosen a career path as a dancer? I have never been involved in that lifestyle, I have been on my job as a medical assistant for 16 years. I like him but this is all new to me. I wonder if he could be monogamous when women are all over him. I just need to know what you think. You can read it this on the radio but you always have good advice. Thanks

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Today's topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) Dear Radio Station, I am a 31 year old woman and I've been in a relationship and living with my fiancé for the past 4 years. Every since the pandemic we have been having all kinds of problems in the relationship. Maybe its because we were working from home for a while or maybe it’s because he is just an asshole at time. But whatever the issue we are not speaking right now. I don’t know if the devil was busy or what, but o...f my ex’s found me on Insta and started messaging me. Then we was communicating daily. I hadn't seen him in 7 years. Right after Thanksgiving he flew me out. He was always really good in bed and that’s what kept me with him for the year because he was an asshole too. I told my fiancé I was on a business trip and I can't keep lying because the truth is closing in on this situation quick. My fiancé doesn’t believe I was on business and this is part of the reason we are not speaking. Christmas is just a few days away and we committed to having his parents come over and he will not cancel. My question to you as man, do I tell my fiancé the truth or do I not? I am truly sorry for what I did and I know it will hurt him. He’s already suspicious but he really has no facts. What do you think? See more

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Today’s topic comes from a female listener, Derrick please help me understand. My current situation is I’m dealing with a man who is legally separated from his wife and I've been in the picture about a year (10 months). He has has 2 sons (one with her and one with another woman) and I understand they all have to communicate for the kid’s sake but he and I had a big argument yesterday that started because of "family pictures" he takes with his ex and it led to him saying some... hurtful things. They do family photos still being separated supposedly for her son and I heard him asking is he coming home for Christmas. They are not a family anymore and I feel he should sit both of his boys down and explain he has a girlfriend now. He went off saying I will never come before his boys and we aren't married. He also said I need to sit down and think if I'm able to handle the situation as it is. That just aint right. I won’t let him move in because of my 2 girls and he needs to be my husband before living w/ all of us but his divorce is not final yet. They have met him but he shows no interest in getting to know them. I love him but I don't know what to do. The ex’s knows about me and even brought their boys to a restaurant with us before covid so there is no bad blood. He just has to speak up!!!!!! When or if we marry I have to split holidays time and he taking family photos with his kids mothers? Is this normal, please help me. See more

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Today’s topic comes from a male listener, This topic is a bit more taboo than usual. This situation has to do with an individual who was forced to accept wrongdoings at a young age. As time passed by this situation kept happening to this individual and over time this individual has came to accept what was happening to them and at times often searched for it and even felt comfortable enough at times to flirt with the same person who was doing the wrongdoings in front of other... people. This individual is now 30. This individual is aware of the problems the wrongdoer causes not only for her but for the other people around them and this is one of the main reasons that none of her past relationships had worked out. This individual claims that they want the situation to stop and that they want to get out of it but they often fantasize about the meetings between them and their wrongdoer and works even harder for her and her dad to sneak and do their white power thing even if it causes a problem in her existing relationship. This person says they love their boyfriend and want to get married one day but that's just how they were raised and its just a white power thing. Her boyfriend has gotten threatened and even bribed just so he wouldn't say anything and there is a lot more to this but my question for you and the rest of the listeners is, do you think its normal for someone to think its okay to fuck their dad and try to force someone their in a relationship with to accept it like its all good like well its just the way I was raised. What are your thoughts on the situation? See more

Relief is finally on the way for music venues.

Today's topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) I get it, everyone is different and we all have our own pace. Like most women, throughout my childhood I've been expected to meet the right man, date him, he asked me to marry him, then have a baby just like my mom, aunts and cousins And everything is supposed to just "fall into place.. I’m 33 now and I can't help but hear the whispers of family members as they snicker about either it's been SO long since I’ve dated or t...hat I'm never going to get married or that I still stay at home with my parents. And now here I am. I met the most amazing woman 50 days ago. We get along perfectly, have many similar hobbies, and we introduced each other to new hobbies. She taught me so much about love and how to really love myself. What I am doing is not accepted in this household. This is something I could never talk to my parents about being that my father is a heavy in the church and my mom is on every board. I am grown and don’t feel I should be sneaking around. We talked about marriage and all of the drama that is going to come from me telling my family. Tuesday and she gave me a promise ring on Wednesday. She said it’s not an engagement but just a promise ring, a promise that we will be together. I know I love her and I want to be with her, but how do I make this work? My mama and daddy will never accept this or her. Can you give me some advice? See more

Join the discussion on how the COVID recession has negatively impacted women's gains in the workforce. Leave your comments on how the COVID recession has impacted you and your family. KMOX reporter Megan Lynch welcomes guests Leslie Gill, President of Rung for Women, Keri Koehler, Executive Director of the Women's Foundation of Greater St. Louis and LaTanya Mackey, MA, LPC a therapist and clinical site supervisor.

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Today's topic comes from female listener, (unedited) I work in the healthcare field and I took the vaccine yesterday. My question is, what is it gonna take to get black people to take the vaccine?

After an unimaginably difficult year, Lil Baby did something special for George Floyd’s 7-year-old daughter.

Today’s topic comes from a female listener, (edited) My children are 9 and 7 yrs old about three years out of their lives their real father spent in jail. When he's out I see him all over Instagram with his other children. He hates me so bad Derrick and he so jealous of me and what I do around North County it’s crazy. He does nothing at all for my two daughters, they ask about him be he has only seen them about 4 times in their lives and he got them stuck out here with two ...different last names. I hate him too Derrick. he lives with his mama and he got 4 kids all together and when he was in jail he would call and send me messages to stop singing and stay out of the studio when I was making money doing it to take care of his kids. I have never actively pursued child support. he went to jail and I was getting assistance and he had signed my oldest birth certificate so they went after him so in turn he asked for DNA tests on both my children. Derrick, like he didn’t know they were his - when he asked for blood tests they slapped his ass on child support of course - I have never actively pursued it like I said because he has never paid it and I only see him on the computer - that was 7 yrs ago when he did those blood tests and he has never done not one thing for my children. I’m at the point now where it angers me really bad because people tell me he denies his children and they are too beautiful for that -- I want him to pay Derrick -- since he don’t do sh*t else - not even ask me how they doing My oldest texted him from my phone and asked him what was he getting them for xmas and he said send him a list and he’ll get some stuff one day. I’m broke right now from making sure they have a good xmas while he on his insta story bragging about how many presents is under his tree for his son - Derrick I need to know what to do about that ni**a walking around here scotch free while I raise his two kids - telling the whole world I’m crazy and that’s why he don’t do nothing for his own blood. I sent him some messages and cussed his lowdown ass OUT -- how can he do that??? PLEASE READ I KNOW IM NOT THE FIRST AND WONT BE THE LAST BUT ALL MEN SWEAR CHILD SUPPORT IS WRONG BUT WHAT ELSE CAN I DO???? See more

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Today's topic comes from a male listener, (unedited) Ok maybe I'm tripping but I started canceling females pretty fast 1st I met this beautiful in wholefoods her body was amazing best shape of a woman I ever would have been with hands down she had a new California chest and a Alabama cold oatmeal booty we were masked up so I couldn't see the face anyway within that same day our text messages got explicit so she sent me a few nasty pictures after examining the pictures I notic...ed the bottoms yeah both of her feet were dirty like she been jogging in mud for a few days so I blocked her Next female I met was at my house she had her covid results we kicked it talked about movies all that good stuff then she asked "can I use your bathroom I gotta piss" bold but I said "yeah but the toilet seat up just put the toilet seat down" about 10 minutes after she came out I walked pass the bathroom and I noticed the toilet seat was still up so I sitting there wondering did she sit her bare ass on my toilet bowl with toilet seat up? I know it's something small but it really got to me like I know she didn't put the toilet seat down take her piss then put the toilet seat back up because I can't picture a woman doing that and if u will raw dog a toilet seat you'll have sex unprotected with anybody no question, I talked to a female friend and she suggested that she squatted over the toilet bowl because that's what women do especially since they don't know u I already blocked the woman but my question is am I cancelling women too fast? And what's the smallest thing people have ended a relationship over? Continuing with the previous topic another woman just got canceled today she sent me a freaky picture in an unfinished basement I'm guessing she live in somebody basement we too old for that type of stuff I crop the picture to avoid any problems

Today's topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) Can you please post this on your topic of the day I need some advice about my situation ..... This the second time I woke up and the lugs on my tire was unscrewed ..this time it was when I was picking my daughter up from her dad house at this point I feel like 1 of his female friends trying to kill me and it’s sad and hurtful because I ride with my children everyday and the 1st time I almost lost my life with my daughter ...in the car and the second time his other BM was around for the past few weeks we’ve been getting along for the sake of the kids yes we’ve had our moments with each other from dealing with our BD at the same time but it’s been months (February 14) since me and my BD messed around my daughter loves her daddy and I will never take that from her so yes we know how to deal with each other now for that reason only But today I went to pick my daughter up my car riding just fine I went up to his apartment to get my daughter I was up there for about 20mins before his other mama comes knocking we stay in there a few minutes talking to him then I leave I start my car up I started driving and noticed my car was doing the same thing it was when my tire came off the 1 time so I pulls over all my lugs still on the car but I did notice they were unscrewed she must of seen me pull over so she called and asked if everything was okay I said yes I drove a little bit further down and the tire was getting worse so I pull over gets back out and all my lugs are unscrewed half way so I calls him and they pulls back up y’all this woman had a jack on her car so soon as I seen the jack I asked her did you do this to my car she won’t even look me in my face because she knew I was hot and I didn’t wanna jump the gun but my car was riding just fine and the 1st time it happened somebody asked me if someone wanted to sabotage me or hurt me at this point I don’t wanna just jump out and say it was his BM but I literally just left his house in my heart I feel like she want me dead and smiling in my face like everything ok and yes she is known for damaging peoples property But 1 thing I do know GOD sees everything and as much as I know them kids love each other imma just fall back on her because that secret hate for someone can make you KILL!! I love my life and I’m not tryna lose it because someone has that much hate for me over a man that I don’t want anymore but keeping the love for our child together. My question is was I wrong for jumping the gun thinking it was her and why do women become so envious to the point where it causes harm to themselves and another women over a man that’s no good and should I get a Restraining order just for my protection? See more

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Today's topic comes from a female listener, (unedited) I'm looking for advice with my situation. I've been with my man off and on for or over 3 years now .. at least 34 of the 38 months we've been together he has been in and out of jail. Everything from probation violation to possesion. We had a baby in February and he didn't see his son until he was 3 months because he was in jail. He came out a different person. Kinda acting crazy and wanting to fight all the time. He caught another case in August and he's looking at some real time like about 10 years this time. He wants me to hold him down while he is in jail and maybe going to prisin for his charges .... do I wait on him or do I move on with my life ??? Is this even true love ??? #INEEDANSWERS

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